Love, is an Art.

Assalamualaikum.

Hey

I think that

love, is an art

of taking care of the most delicate of hearts

and the most fragile of feelings

of being tolerate with each other

of accepting each other as one self

of planning ahead, that's the plan to live together

of maintaining a good relationship for years to come

of togetherness

of the dependence of one upon another

Yes, I'm going to narrow down the scope 

into love between a man & a woman

although it may apparently typical

but, as typical as it looks

still, there are plenty of people out there

who failed to understand the concept

Proof?

High rate of divorce

Not to forget high rate of anak luar nikah being born

Marriage issues such as physical & mental abuse, 

failed parenting, financial problems

as well as out-of-marriage issues such as coupling, 

getting engaged, having sex before getting married

All these made me uncertain 

of what is their definition of "a man & a woman" love

but undoubtedly

such issues are possible to be avoided

or to be improved for good

if one is to give it all out

when he or she is really head over heels in love

well, it applies to the couples 

who are far from getting married as well

yeah, if you can give it all out in a friendship

why don't you do the same when you're in a relationship

am I right?

The least thing is

if you're not meant to be together

you won't feel that regretful 

moaning around saying

" Ohhh I didn't do my best when we're in a relationship.

Imma bad partner wuwuwu *crying effect* "

nevertheless

should you engage in a relationship

WITHOUT sacrificing any of your precious assets

especially when you're yet to be married

Remember, we DO have boundaries. 

It's not like we don't have Him watching us in every step that we take, every time.

It all depends on your own 

to be creative to cherish the relationship

without being off the limits

Then again, falling in love too

is an art

hey, falling in love is quite subjective 

to be expressed literally okay?

One may fall for good qualities in another

One may fall for the looks

or even the heredity 

One may even fall for the wealth possessed by another

hurmm it may seemed materialistic

but who cares? 

As long as it is solid enough to be justified as a reason.

It could be anybody

as long as the person we're in love with

is able to help us expand & improve ourselves

as a human in person

What? Don't make that weird face.

That's the main reason you're falling in love, isn't it?

To find that motivation & courage 

for you to be able to increase your abilities

and boosting your life, perhaps?

hey, that explains why a woman is more beautiful

and why one is more spirited when he / she

is engaged in a good relationship

However

when one is getting divorced

he / she will tend to find that self-expansion him / herself

and being able to survive only on his / her own

eventually will lead him / her to feel that

he / she doesn't need to love or to be in a relationship

with a person of different sex.

Probably you may want to read here for more details

Why do We Fall in Love

I'll end this with a video of a song I'm currently listening to.

It's dedicated to someone I'm officially in love with

as a message that I'll wait for her

as long as I have that strength to stand

maybe you can guess it based on my posts before this. 

It's even better if she's reading this :)

Until then,

from a point of view of an immature freak.

Oh, that's not me, anyways. Heheh.

Assalamualaikum.